todd and violet
this is Todd and I after we ran the Inchworm together for the SRL Berkeley show in 2001. in this photo, Todd and I were just recently divorced; we'd married in 1998 but realized we loved each other in a wholly different way. we remained roommates for a year after, then best friends when we moved apart and fell in love with new people. over the years, our closeness changed but grew.
there was an accident right after the SRL show on saturday (my birthday). I wasn't at the show, but I can't stop thinking things would have gone differently had I been there. he really wanted me to go. right now, Todd is in a coma. I cannot stop crying, but am in constant contact with his family and those there who are close to him.
prayers, candles, all of it, please. I love him so much. the next 48 hours are the most crucial.
this photo is a favorite; I'd just caught the machine on fire by accident, we put it out, and were having that post-show blissful buzz.