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I been thinking about choices.....

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I have been thinking a lot about choices, the choices that I have made and the choices that I will be asked to make in the future. It is more and more clear to me all the time that in most past situations that I felt I had little control. in reality the fact that I was in the situation at all came down to the choices that I had made somewhere along the line. I am beginning to see that while I get really stressed out about making decisions that in the end I am more stressed out when I feel powerless to control my own future. The power is in the choices. I have usually either made a snap decision because I waited to long or I have simply ignored issues that needed to have action until the choices where limited or the decision was made for me in some way.

I have to let go of somethings and realize that I need to be able to make the right choices for myself and my family, I can't always make other people happy, I have searched for the approval of others and so often it was denied to me, but I realize now that some people just won't give it up, no matter what I do. So from here on out, I am putting it all on red and letting her spin.........

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Taken on November 20, 2008