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Benefits of Parent-children Attachment

All those parents who are not good at developing #parent-child attachments should go through the following points to get an idea of the perks one gets to enjoy if you have mastered the art of attachment with the child, in addition to providing the children with a chance to ride on cars with remote control.


Sense of Giving: It is important to highlight the significance of encouraging the sense of giving in the family, many research and cases show that if the parents do that, babies tend to respond to it in form of giving back. For instance, if you take care of the infant, he/she will smile back at you in addition to providing you a number of moments to cherish. Similarly, if you spend time with the children, you will get to experience the world through their perspective. And if you have reached a point where you can easily connect with the child in terms of understanding the emotions, the bond is likely to grow and bring happiness in your family.


Happiness: Some of the parents underestimate the role a baby can play in changing the #family-dynamics. For instance, infants can change the moods of the family members in form of acting in a way that would make them feel happy. For example, after getting fed, the child may want to play with you and if you do not have a hectic routine, you can spend the time with the baby and you will be surprised to know how it can make you happy. In addition, the process of growing up can also be celebrated and you will come to know more about the baby. Therefore, your bond will be strengthened.


The sense of Peace: The task of making a baby fall asleep is undoubtedly a hard part of the parenting; however, if you learn to do it, you will realize how peaceful it can be to watch your child sleeping soundly. Moreover, children are depended on the attention of the parents and love, especially in the stage of infancy. Therefore, it is best to devote your attention and help the baby grow like they are supposed to be in order to feel peaceful and satisfied about your parenting.


Mutual Growth: In addition to increasing the sense of giving, the #parenting of the children can help to shape or influence the personalities of the parents and children to a large extent. For instance, your patience will be tested and if you learn to control your temperament, you will end up becoming a relatively calmer person. Similarly, children mold the personality of the parents in from of changing the work and sleep patterns. For example, the sense of responsibility is also improved once the parents learn to provide for the children and they get better at parenting. Likewise, when the child learns to speak, you will be introduced to their world in terms of viewing things in a different perspective. Hence, you will become open to many new ideas and things.


Sensitivity: According to one of the theory, if you consider the infant as the recorder, it would imply that all the experiences will leave a mark on them in terms of the #relationships and the level of attachment they have with you. And some of these memories will stay with them for life. In other words, if you give the children good memories, they will become more sensitive to feelings and it may be translated into their personality as well. If one reviews the result of the research done on the infant, who had strong memories, they show less or no signs of anxiety in the later stages of life. In simple words, when your child is a baby, it is probably the best time to influence their personality.


As the children grow older and reach the stage of toddlers, their need to explore the surrounding become more than staying in one place and if the parents accompany the child to learn and experience new things, they get to develop the dynamics of their relationship. For instance, if the child is free to explore, he/she will grow into a person who is creative and who is a good problem solver. In the same way, if your child likes to draw, he/she can become a good artist. So, all you have to do as the parent is that you recognize the interest of the child and try to polish it.

If your child is not attached to you, chances are he/she will lack the confidence and if the child is not confident enough, the socializing skills of the child will not be adequate either. Some of the children may develop the condition in which they would do things to seek the attention of the parents. As a result, most of the energy of the child will be spent on attempting to prove oneself or to get the attention rather than investing it on the productive tasks. This means that attachment with the child should not be downplayed, especially if the parents are interested in making the child a #self-sufficient adult.


The Baby’s Behavior: Some of the experts believe that babies who are attached to the parents tend to cry less as compare to the kids who are not. The main logic is that if the child is given care and love in the childhood, they will develop personalities which are stable than the other types. Similarly, the sense of connection and ability to overcome the hard times is advanced. Moreover, if the child has sentimental stability, it would mean that your relationship with the child will also be defined along those lines. So, if the sentiments of the child are not controlled, he/she will not be able to take charge of the drawbacks in any relationship.


In short, the attachment of the child is mandatory for the healthy development of the children. And if you work on the nurturing this aspect, the personality and future of the child can be constructively changed.

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Uploaded on May 9, 2017