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Day 126 - 365 Days - 5th May 08 : SO, THIS IS GOODBYE...

Day 126 - 365 Days - 5th May 08 : SO, THIS IS GOODBYE... by Shai Coggins.
SO, THIS IS GOODBYE... {{ EXPLORED, 12 May 08 }}

A week ago, I posted about uncertainties. Little did I know that that
was just the beginning of a long, hard week. Day after day, I've been
thrown something difficult to deal with that was tougher than the last.
It made that "uncertain" situation look easy.

The worst bit came late on Friday evening (9th May)... News came that
my dad, who just turned 62 the day I took this photo you see here
(taken 5th May)... had a stroke. On the streets of Manila. Only some
stranger found him and brought him to the hospital, unconscious.

He went into a coma and was put on life support within 24 hours. And,
his vitals keep going down. We are told by the doctors to expect the
worst.

So tomorrow, I'm off to travel a few thousands miles to see my dad.
Possibly, to say goodbye.

And while keeping up with this project is something that I've tried
so hard to do, I've come to accept that at this time of my life, I'm
unable to keep going. Yes, I've completed until Day 131 (though I
haven't posted any of them, and have no plans of doing so right now).
But, I think that's it for me right now.

365 has been such an amazing challenge. I've met so many great folks
and made a lot of fabulous connections and friendships. I can never
thank you all enough for the support and encouragement you've given
me all these time. You all have helped to keep me going this far.

But, taking photos and such need to be put aside for now. I need some
time to mourn and regroup.

Maybe I'll do 365 again someday. But for now, this is goodbye.

I hope though, that you will keep in touch. Again, thank you. 

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manbok  Pro User  says:

Shai, some things are far more important.. Your father and family need you right now.. May by some miracle your father pull through this and recover.. Otherwise I hope his final moments are in peace and you perhaps get that last chance to say goodbye before he passes away.

Whatever the outcome, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.. Stay strong.. God Bless
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Sandman5  Pro User  says:

I'm so sorry to hear about your father. I can't imagine the emotions you must be going through at this time... The 365 project should be the least of your worries at the moment... Take care and I hope everything will be okay...
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kouryo  Pro User  says:

Pleaes find peace and time to look for yourself, to find inner strength and balance again. Hard times can be valuable times for they are intensive and we learn to know about our limits. I am feeling with you, pleaes take my best wishes.
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pinoyphotog  Pro User  says:

Be strong, Kabayan Shai. We are not
given tests that God knows we cannot
hurdle. My prayers go with you.

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Seen in my contacts' photos. (?)
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micnic2  Pro User  says:

Oh Shai, I'm so sorry about your Dad ... I'll be thinking about you.

I'm so sorry that you have to finish the project but some things are more important. I hope everything goes Ok for you & your family.

{{{hugs}}}
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flipteezy  Pro User  says:

Our prayers are with you shai. See you when you get back.
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Photos By Jes  Pro User  says:

Family is more important than anything else. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. We will all be here when you feel the energy to return.
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Jen@hazelnutdesigns  Pro User  says:

Gosh Shai, there are only a few words I can say to offer you comfort at this time..I have enjoyed getting to know you so much, and I am deeply saddened to hear of your dreadful news. My thoughts are with you and your family,I shall be praying for you all to receive the strength to face the challenges you will encounter over these next few days. Be strong. We are all right here with you. Please PLEASE stay in touch....Thinking of you, nikon sister xxx
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Sarah Hall Photography (~Teewinot~)  Pro User  says:

wow Shai, so sorry to hear about this....my prayers are with your dad and your family. take the best of care.... know that your sp project has been excellent and enjoyable.

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Seen in my contacts' photos. (?)
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one daaaangerous easter egg says:

Oh, Shai, I am so incredibly sorry to hear this. I really hope that your dad will recover. Have a safe trip and please take care of yourself. I'll be thinking of you.
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hawaii  Pro User  says:

Sorry to hear about your father. 365 project or not, you know we're here for you every day... usually to admire your talent, but sometimes to offer our support. Take care.
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[nachocheese]  Pro User  says:

shai, i am so sorry to hear about your dad. will be praying for him and your family. i'll will really miss your SPs. You have been an inspiration to me. Take care...
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girlche says:

Sorry to hear about your Dad, Shai.
My prayers are with you and your family.
I'll miss your postings.
Have a safe trip home.
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starlightexpress  Pro User  says:

I'm deeply sorry about your dad, I hope he will recover very soon. Have a safe trip. Take care.
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Sybren A. Stüvel  Pro User  says:

I wish you and your dad all the strength you need. Good luck to the both of you.
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mandyseyfang  Pro User  says:

Thinking and praying for you Shai. Thankyou for your beautiful photos over this this year.
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crispyparty  Pro User  says:

Hope everything turns out well Shai. You and your family will be in our prayers. Maybe we'll bump into you back here in Manila.
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jmven says:

I think is great
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Sue323  Pro User  says:

Sorry to hear that, Shai. Take care.
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krisb10k  Pro User  says:

I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. :( Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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Juancho Reyes says:

Sorry to hear about your dad.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Hope to see more of your work sometime in the future when all is well.
Take care.
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meowiefotografie {in n out}  Pro User  says:

SHai, am with you. Words are not enough to soothe your aching heart, but prayers are powerful enough to calm it down even just for a bit.....may you find consolation and peace as you go through this painful process...keep the faith!
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Allyn (allynedmonds.com) [deleted] says:

All my best to you, your father and your family! You will be in my prays! Take care my sweet friend and stay strong! =)
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{ karen }  Pro User  says:

Oh, shai....i am so, so sorry i missed this. and i am so, so sorry to hear about your dad. I pray that you and your family will be able to recover from this soon. Remember that God is ALWAYS in control, and He loves and cares for you, no matter how grim life tends to become and no matter how He seems to leave so many things unanswered..
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yo_ashnish  Pro User  says:

Oh the sadness :( You take care of yourself Shai! I will miss your fabulous sp's, but I certainly understand the need to quit at this time. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. *hugs*
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