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Thirty and counting.

Thirty and counting. by Reinar.
I am blessed. Richly. Immensely. Undeservedly.

I have an occupation that causes many to accuse me of not doing anything (really). Yet carried out right, my work has the capacity to genuinely affect lives.

I have driven cars which I never expected to be driving. The first car I bought was Jeep. I've taken a car to 220kmh. I've driven through floods, the water half way up the door of a 4x4. I can parallel park.

I've read much. I've travelled some.

I have met many people—a number of those I can now honestly call good friends. Friends who are funny, intelligent, lovers of food. Friends who are most certainly snobs.

I've had wonderful arguments. Childish ones. Sweet ones. Horrid all-nighters. I've bought flowers on a whim. Dozens. Single long-stemmed. I have loved. I've had a ring returned.

My woes, however real, are the afflictions of the privileged. The anxiety of choice. The schedule of bills. The worries of love: lost or found. Facebook versus Friendster.

I belong to a family. Caring, supportive, quirky and over-bearing. I have a place there.

I've won some and, as the saying goes, I've lost some. I've done wrong. Enough to warrant being called an ass (even more). As many times as I erred, I've been forgiven. Numerous times over.

Most of the sentences in this post began with I. That is quite misleading. However much this post seems to be about me, it isn't. It would be audacious to think that I made the last 30 years happen. A lot of it, if not all of it, is owed to Providence and Grace. Perhaps the best thing I can show for 30 years is this: a faith intact.

Sincerely, I thank you all. 

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M e l o d y  Pro User  says:

Wonderful profound words.
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Big Gig Photography says:

Happy Birthday Reinar and many happy returns. Hope you have a wonderful day surrounded by love and things you love and people you love.

You are a great guy!

Much love, Sam and Scott.xx
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INoxKrow  Pro User  says:

I love it when words flow like poetry...
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jayejaye  Pro User  says:

happy birthday Rei!!! I look forward to celebrating your 30th year with you when we get back. I hope you have a fabulous time today, eat, drink and be merry XoXo
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jodes i am  Pro User  says:

Yay for 30 Rei...Happy Birthday.
I hope you have a awesome day - and celebrate it in style!
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timijimi  Pro User  says:

See, what are you worried about? Welcome to the club dude. You've achieved much, and done it in style. Happy birthday mate. May the next 30+ years bring you much joy and happiness. Just think of all that good food we can consume in that time! Haha, have a great day dude. We shall celebrate properly when I get back. Word.
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- reuben -  Pro User  says:

I haven't seen you for ages, and I'm glad things are going so well. Happy birthday.
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purplenymph says:

maybe you should consider writing a book? with matching pictures of course...

always reassuring to see that you are where you should be...

nice chair too :)
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Michael Kwokstyle  Pro User  says:

Happy Birthday!
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memoriesofthewind says:

that's the attitude to have - gratitude is good for the immune system.

happy birthday reinar!
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Reinar  Pro User  says:

Thank you so very much for all your well wishes. I appreciate them deeply. I hope to see you all soon. Really. Even those in Manila, the US and the UK.

Many of you know that I have been quite anxious about this day... eh...

Thanks again.
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DF2006  Pro User  says:

Just discovered you here. Wonderful images AND intelligent words!

I've discovered that I never need be anxious about the future. I make a point of asking myself if I know anyone who has ever reached the next moment.... I certainly never have! I relate to your words about what you call Grace. I'm learning that it's always with us in this, the only moment we have. It's eternal - no start or end point- we have it all to express and receive, right now. It has nothing to do with time - 30, 40, 80 years - but everything to do with putting aside selfishness, being judgemental. This frees us to feel/know that the universe is OK. From there, we are able to "genuinely affect lives" as you put it, positively. So often, those whose occupations seem to seem to be doing very little are the ones who are moving the greatest mountains.

Please forgive this little epistle! It just fell out.
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Reinar  Pro User  says:

Ah, no apologies necessary.

I thank you for sharing your thoughts. And I am glad that I am able to connect some how with others (and somewhat make sense).

Grace indeed.

Thank you and please keep visiting; I sincerely appreciate it.
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