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Marjorie Newlin - In Memoriam

Marjorie Newlin - In Memoriam by kchbrown.
Marjorie or Miss Marj as we call her has been in inspiration to me and countless others in Philly and around the world. Miss Marj starting training at the age of 72! That's right folks 72 years of age. She did it basically for her cat when she found that it was getting harder and harder to lift those bags of kitty litter in the market. She also did it because she wanted to be as independent as she could for as long as she could. I met her for the first time at Rivers Gym in Germantown around 1996 we were both preparing for a bodybuilding competition. She was cool, calm and focused. When she hit the stage and posed to Aretha's "Respect" she bought the house down! Everyone jumped to their feet to give her a grand standing ovation. Many times she competed against women who were less than half her age. She has appeared on Oprah, The View and other TV shows and commercials. She was also a great grandmother and motivational speaker.

There are a lot of people out there who think you should "act your age." You know, if you do that it will be just that, an act.

There are so many people out there who want to get in shape and change their appearance but they start believing they are being victimized by people with "gym bodies." They feel that these people set up unreal aspirations for them. This is a big fallacy. In most cases the people who feel that they can't achieve any level of fitness either really don't want to, don't have a plan or know where to get the correct information to do so. But the bottom line is that with most things what you get out of something is commensurate with what you put in. We love to play victim in this country yet we don't do the things necessary to get what we really want out of life.

In my years as a competitive bodybuilder I have met men and women some as old and older than she. I have witnessed blind bodybuilders compete on stage with the sighted, athletes with amputated limbs, paraplegic athletes, diabetics, asthmatics. You get my drift here? There is always someone more disadvantaged than you who are making their dreams come true.

Miss Marj's mission was simple. All she wanted to do was to be able to get litter for her cat! Look where that got her! Think about it!

She taught me a valuable lesson that will never be forgotten.

Marjorie passed at the age of 87 on January 24th 2008.

*note* this is not my photo 

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gtj-45  Pro User  says:

What a wonderful tribute, and what a fantastic lady...
it's amazing what we can do when we put our minds to it..
a very inspirational story....
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kchbrown  Pro User  says:

Gale thanks! Whenever I feel like I can't do this because of that, I think of her and others like her who just do.
Posted 22 months ago. ( permalink )

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menshi mihas says:

kevin,

man i know it is tough to loose a friend. when you take those emotions to celebration it is such a beautiful thing.

thank you for sharing Miss Marj's wisdom and yours.
Posted 22 months ago. ( permalink )

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Atila  Pro User  says:

I saw her on oprah once... how beautiful, rip
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Surly Bratt  Pro User  says:

How many times have I heard someone say "I want to join the gym but I need to lose a few pounds 1st" or that they're intimidated by the body builders and others who're already fit. They think they'll be made fun of because they're out of shape. It's so very untrue!! When I 1st started working out I found everyone so helpful and not a single soul pointed or laughed. There's such a mix of people at my gym...all ages and shapes and sizes. There's an older lady who's there every day, she must be in her 70s, and altho she's not as ripped as Marj she could certainly leave me eating her dust!

Since my surgery and illness I've gotten extremely out of shape. I've been depressed and hating my body. I've even heard myself say, "I need to get in shape at home before I face all the guys at the gym again." Your story about Marj has inspired me. I'm going to join the gym next week...been putting it off for a few weeks now...but it's time to stop acting my age!

I miss my muscles...time to get em back! Thanks Kev!
Posted 22 months ago. ( permalink )

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akiey says:

Amazing AND inspirational indeed! Her determination just blows my mind! Thanks for sharing man!
Posted 22 months ago. ( permalink )

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kchbrown  Pro User  says:

menshi, you are welcome and thank you.

Atila, thanks so much.

Sally, thank you for pointing out the top of the most common excuses I have heard in all my years in fitness. I didn't want to get further onto my soapbox in Miss Marj's memorial. Same at my gym for the most part. Everyone is too busy doing their own thing to be worried about anyone else. :-)

Good for you! I wish you much success when you return. I will be returning too after the allergies and flu-like bugs are done with me. :-)

akiey, you are so welcomed!
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Daniel Selby says:

What a great tribute! What an inspirational lady!
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eye_fish  Pro User  says:

age is just a number

she seems like a cool lady
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Froot Smoothie  Pro User  says:

now that's what i call inspiration! the world needs more people like miss marj :-)
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schweet_rice  Pro User  says:

Nice tribute, Kevin. Miss Marj will be missed, I'm sure.
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matuko amini  Pro User  says:

yes...i just saw her on tyra banks show...amazing woman.
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Zach_ManchesterUK  Pro User  says:

Thanks for posting this photo Kevin. What a remarkable woman she was. I hope I never act my age too. Love to you x

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SkyShaper  Pro User  says:

Damn.... saw this sweet lady not long ago on TV. Of course nobody could guess her age and jaws dropped when they found out. Such a gentle and inspiring lady. Thought she would live forever I did.
Gonna get my lazy ass back in the gym, and think of her.

more .... www.philly.com/philly/obituaries/Morjorie_New lin_87_fitne...
Posted 22 months ago. ( permalink )

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kchbrown  Pro User  says:

Thanks Sky for that link! Pump that iron! :-)

Thanks to all of you that commented!
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Ĝiøvanni says:

Wonderful thoughts Kev, love you bro!
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hellophotokitty  Pro User  says:

what an inspiration Kev - thanks for sharing
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