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Day 38 - "I guess if we ignore it, it'll probably go away."

you have a beautiful mouth.
very agreed
you have beautiful eyes
how on earth did you get your eyebrows pink?
Day 38 - "I guess if we ignore it, it'll probably go away." by like_shipwrecks.
If you believe that bullshit please see exhibit a.

- Losing Streak

I'm angry. I'm livid. I'm disgusted, disappointed. I feel like I'm being ignored, swept under the rug, suffocated.

Being gay does not make me a bad person. Being gay is not hurting anyone. Being gay should not be something that people need to talk about in secret, hidden, in hushed voices. Being gay should not deem me a second class citizen and deny me my right to marry who I choose.

Being gay should not result in this.

Being gay should not mean having to ask permission to marry the person you love.

So.

To everyone who voted yes on Prop 8 in California - Fuck you.

To everyone who voted yes on Amendment 2 in Florida - Fuck you.

To everyone who voted yes on Prop 102 in Arizona - Fuck you.

To everyone who voted yes on Act 1 in Arkansas - Fuck you.

To anyone who has ever called me (or any other gay PERSON) a faggot - Fuck you.

To anyone who has ever shown violence towards the LGBT community - Fuck you.

We are PEOPLE. We are not an alien race. We are not a cult. We are people, with lives, jobs, families, and feelings. We are constructive members of society and to deny us of rights that all PEOPLE should have is just WRONG.

Voting against us is not going to make us or the issues disappear. We're not giving up. We're fighting back. We aren't going anywhere. 
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[isabel]  Pro User  says:

OH MY GOD.
what is wrong with people??
i wish i lived in one of those states so i could have voted no.
so ridiculous.

i am on your side, ALL THE WAY.
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metró  Pro User  says:

great shot nicole. i'm so sorry that things like this are still happening, it's just so maddening and wrong.
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JenniPenni  Pro User  says:

Acceptance is one of the most important things to fight for...and I can't belive that being gay can still be an issue! It's also strange how otherwise very open minded people judge the gay communities even harshly. It's good you stand up for yourself and for everyone's right to love whoever they choose to love.
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darkspark  Pro User  says:

like my mother likes to tell me
"the squeaky wheel gets the oil"
the whole thing feels like such a huge mistake. hopefully it will only serve as a rallying cry to get a better plan of action..in action.
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_MichaelK_  Pro User  says:

I know it's cliche to say that you are beautiful when you are angry, but it's true.
I agree with you. I voted no on Prop 8. I think people should be free to do what they wish as long as it don't hurt anyone else. You want to marry the woman or guy that you love, then by all means, do so. Love knows no boundaries of age, race, religion, creed or sex.

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rachiedoubt says:

YOUR EYEBROWS ARE FUCKING PINK. THATS SO SICK, IN A GOOD WAY.
you're fucking gorgeous. i agree with all that you said.
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just.K  Pro User  says:

I'm sorry sweetie.
The world is an ignorant and cruel place sometimes.
xo
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redjoshuameg  Pro User  says:

cool...
it sucks...
never give up ! I'm with you.
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wisely-chosen  Pro User  says:

I think there's a whole bunch of people out there who are so miserable in their own lives that they deliberately try to interfere with the happiness of others

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viva la vibs  Pro User  says:

I definitely concur on the "fuck yous." But I would also like to throw out a THANK YOU to those in both CT and MA that decided to keep gay marriage legal! I'm very proud of my state for pulling through.
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Danielle-Marie-Sandoval says:

Hi, I'm an admin for a group called Inspiration: 365, and we'd love to have this added to the group!

I VOTED NO ON 8 and trust me im not stopping until things change!
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bekkasaurus  Pro User  says:

This is a great photo.
Keep being yourself, and never, not for one second, stop being proud.
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death and gravity  Pro User  says:

I know, it's so fucked up..
I still have trouble believing prop 8 passed here in California. The yes camp had little kids out on street corners waving placards, it was so upsetting to see.

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*merry*prankster*  Pro User  says:

God some people SUCK!! Fuck em'
Posted 8 months ago. ( permalink )

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Sierra is a space cadet!  Pro User  says:

*Standing ovation* YOU GO GIRL!!! :O
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dwdmguy says:

Good for you!!!! I have a pretty easy answer.
The Govt' does not acknowledge ANY Marriage ONLY Civil Unions.
Let the holy rollers work it out between their own f'ed up flock, go back to molesting children, teaching that God is Punishing and collecting their art work.
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emaahnova  Pro User  says:

What a load of bollocks. :(
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xelia.  Pro User  says:

In the thumbnail it looks like it's your pointer finger - like you're giving a number 1! I think it's the shadow? I'll comment for real later when I have more time!
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CODY WAYNE  Pro User  says:

THANK YOU!!!! This photo and the words below it made my day. WE WILL KEEP FIGHTING!
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*JuanaP_351 says:

Hola, soy el administrador de un grupo llamado Realidad Irrealista y nos encantaría agregar esto al grupo.

Full Colors
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Signe can be found here: flickr.com/lovesigne  Pro User  says:

fucking I hate when people are like that. (not like you, you know what I mean)

<333333
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photo.envy in perpetual confusion says:

fuck is the best way to verbalize this crisis of social liberty.

Keep on telling those people to fuck themselves! I will do the same, and one day - they might listen.
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UM Sizzle  Pro User  says:

great shot. Things will change. We hope.
My girlfriend and I went to the Protest in West Hollywood last night. There are a bunch of shots in my stream. The news said there were over 10, 000. Hopefully there will be more at the next one.
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Jessica :)  Pro User  says:

i went toa rally today in Sacramento.


fucking intense.


we will win.
its only right.
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Stink Poop  Pro User  says:

I agree 100%. I'm thankful I like in Mass... and California? Seriously?! That just pisses me off.
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jezikalyn  Pro User  says:

Your beautiful, I love the colors <3
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trikeratops  Pro User  says:

:(. people..... some just don't understand, do they?
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Vampire Black Cat  Pro User  says:

great photo & message !
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Stink Poop  Pro User  says:

www.jointheimpact.com/

Spread the word. National protest against Prop. 8.
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Jady (Finally Updated Her Flickr Profile! Hooray.)  Pro User  says:

Amen! I have so many disappointed friends in both Fla and California... and I was in college in Boulder when Matthew Shephard was targeted and murdered.

I hope our voices can be heard above the fear and hate!
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☆ Tabrel  Pro User  says:

I agree you should have the same rights, but you and xelia both excell at making more enemies than friends and setting your cause back even further. Luckily I have G&L friends I love and support and will keep trying to help, because if my view was this I'd just say F You back - just stay in your tiny box. I'm sure no matter what rights you get you'll still be angery and working on that ulcer because your real issues are with your limited influence and ability, not the injustice of the world.
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masukomi says:

To me the fact that these horrid bills had to pass in *this* election, was the worst. It's bad enough that they passed, but to put such a taint on an election that should have represented such a victory over bigotry and hatred...
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Kimber Swells  Pro User  says:

I was so mad when I saw those results. Things like that should not be allowed to stand in thsi country. I am sure they will be overturned...............someday.
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Chris..A.K.A..Shrek  Pro User  says:

I know it's wrong that they have "taken away" the rights of human beings. I also know that these words might not help . Always remember, Love is Love. They can never take away the feelings between 2 people. As long as you keep that Love in your heart you will never lose.
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§• Tradewinds •§ says:

first of all....beautiful shot

Second, you said it all, there is really nothing else to add, you covered the issue pretty well, excellent words.
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jojomichelle898 says:

I love your hair and this is an awesome pic. I am straight but I will not stop fighting until prop 8 is repealed or action has been taken to restore rights. I'm livid about it. So many of my friends have been reduced to second class citizens through these propositions and I will not stand for it. Thank you for making a visual statement.
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olga_sgr!  Pro User  says:

Awesome pic Nicole! I don't know exactly what's going on in the States, but I can take a pretty good guess...
It sucks! Inequality bothers me like few things in this short life of ours!
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hydratante  Pro User  says:

Right on! Great shot too, I love your eyebrows!
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Charline O says:

I understand the feeling of anger,
but where does that lead any of you?

saying "fuck you" to people will not solve/help any issue.

all it does it create more hate.

more hate towards people.
more hate towards the world...

Jadydangel said : "I hope our voices can be heard above the fear and hate!"
Isn't "fuck you" hate?

You seek love and acceptance?

Sending out hate will never give this to you.

Ever.
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Just a little more, come on and terrify me ! ♫ [deleted] says:

exelent pic :O

I love your hair ♥
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nuala29  Pro User  says:

things are going to change. i can feel it. may take awhile but it will.
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♥Calime♥  Pro User  says:

Fuck them all! I so agree with you Nicole!

<3
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dodger2008  Pro User  says:

Totally agree with you as well. How California of all states passed Prop 8 is beyond me. Really disgusts me.

I live in South Carolina and worked on an LBGTQ awareness committee here at the University and believe me, I see so much ignorance in my state as well.
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Anthony ★  Pro User  says:

Nicole, thanks for making a point of mentioning Arkansas' Act 1. That law actually was written with gays in mind, to prevent them from being able to adopt children or take any custody; but it also affects any heterosexuals who aren't married but living with someone from doing the same. Act 1 is particularly bad because "pro family" social conservatives are planning to make a push for similar laws in other states as well; possibly even California. As it is now, my sister's marriage is in jeopardy, but if this law catches on, she and her wife won't even be allowed to have children.
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the domestic goddess1  Pro User  says:

Amen Sista!
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outintheocean says:

you're beautiful, and you dyed your eyebrows pink, too! hehe, cute
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da niece says:

i voted no on prop 8. :D
and i agree with the person above me,
you are beautiful. (:
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tonylove2002 says:

The effect is very good
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Starry Eyed Ali  Pro User  says:

killer pic with a powerful message behind it. go get it girl :) you fucking ROCK :)
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face~less says:

There is so much to love about this photograph... You have a wonderful and refeshing style. Thank you for sharing...
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Stellablue72  Pro User  says:

I like that ring! And I think it's sweet that your eyebrows are pink too.
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geminicomplex says:

I fucking love this photo, great shot!
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JulieU32  Pro User  says:

woooow..awesome
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7th Way of Being  Pro User  says:

Hi, I'm an admin for a group called Women are from venus, robots are from Mars, and we'd love to have this added to the group!


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Leilu Dallas~flying to Australia, be back soon~  Pro User  says:

Hi, I'm an admin for a group called Queer Femmery, and we'd love to have this added to the group!
brilliantly captured:)
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Karosene says:

Your eyes are so fucking beautiful.
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Tirintintin says:

you're so cute =)
nice eyes, crazy hair
love your pictures :)
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Barbie Malibu says:

I just love this pic so much. Love your eyes and your hair.

And about the gay issue... well ingnoring gays doesn't mean they do not exist. I really hate it when they treat you like if you were a criminal.

Your pic is really touching. And i love it
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мιѕѕ.αѕнℓєу  Pro User  says:

love the picture!
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douglasr.witt  Pro User  says:

welcome to the EMO Dome!!
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Zeeb. says:

I'm so upset that I was too young to vote. I had "Vote no on Prop 8" sign in my yard (I live in Cali.), and a bunch of my friends ran around replacing "vote yes" signs with "vote no" signs :) it amazes me that people in this time are still acting the way they are, still have such closed minds.
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GreatZeus says:

I think you're a very attractive young girl. It's okay if you like girls. I guess it's hard for people to understand that you're not turned on by the opposite sex.

You're photos are excellent. Would be interesting to see what you could do with a different subject (as in not you).
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Alejandrooo !  Pro User  says:

I'm with all of you even over the ocean ;)
Awesome shot that speaks by itself.
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Waqas Sadiq says:

Hi, I'm an admin for a group called Rose Petal - Post 1 and award 3, and we'd love to have this added to the group!
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Moataz Ali says:

the perfect attitude:)
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