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look at this.

and this.

so - i'm not the kind of person who stops and asks a total stranger if i can take their photo, but i passed this boy bridling up his horse and it haunted me for the next 1/2 mile as i drove. i turned around and went back and tried not to freak him out by asking to take his picture with his horse. a total stranger. wanting him to do specific things with his horse (like rest his head on her neck). he wrote after and was just the coolest kid. SO glad i stopped. you'll probably see more of him.

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©dinamarie originals says:

you caught it just right and i am glad u went back. this is wonderful
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

iMacCanon says:

wonderful indeed!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

PinkleT0es says:

What a super cool story and a beautiful image. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a perfect picture but didn't have your courage to take advantage of the moment.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

.jefra. says:

pinkle - it's really really scary! i felt so wierd. I wanted to say "no, i swear i'm not a pedophile or weirdo i promise!" ps - started calling my little girlbaby "pinkle" once in a while cause of your name - it's just so cute, it sticks with me.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

Wynona R says:

I really relate to what you wrote. I get this tingly feeling sometimes about a specific thing I need to photograph, and sometimes I just keep driving. I've never regretted stopping, and I always regret driving away.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

poppy smiles says:

ooh i feel the same... i so want to getover this fear!!

boy this photo is so worth it!! stunning beautiful and something peaceful!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

Marta Potoczek says:

So glad you asked him Jefra. There is so much peace in this capture. And the fact they both have their eyes closed- awww.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

J.Fields says:

great story and great photo Jefra. This has inspired me to take advantage of similar moments that may come my way.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

brenda acuncius photography says:

That is awesome Jefra! I love how the horse closed his eyes too....just like your title says!!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

murn says:

Wonderful, Jefra!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

Deb_S says:

beautiful capture and i love that you did that. good for you jefra.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

~Nicole~ says:

Awesome Jefra, you are def braver than me!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

Lucie Jane says:

I ♥ this J... .and I love who you are and that you went back!!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

Stacey Woods says:

Wow, good for you for going back to him. Love your result, this one blows me away!!! Love that the horse has his eyes shut. I'm a sucker for horse shots.... growing up in ky and all... ;) This is gorgeous.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

nzangie says:

Wow! This is amazing.

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Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

be awesome [deleted] says:

so brave-what DID You say to him?
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

NicholeVan says:

Wonderful! Just love all of these!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

.jefra. says:

lol! Thanks you guys! ony other time i've done this approaching strangers thing was here - www.flickr.com/photos/jefralinn/431029593/

tara - i said "ok, hi! hey, you there....hi! i'm - i know this sounds really strange, but i'm a photographer and you look really cool with your horse. what's her name? ah. what a pretty name. would it be ok if i took a few pictures of you with her? (then small talk...etc) Ok. thanks. Here's my card, you can email me or see other photos i've taken at this site if you'd like. Also, after i mess with them i'll give you some copies of the photos" (cause it's for fun/porfolio/self - not $$)

Also - i might add, that in the future i'm going to carry a few pocket model releases (in theory) and be sure to talk to the parents to make sure everything is clear.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

--erica says:

I love that they both have their eyes closed.. so beautiful.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

kassyjo86 [deleted] says:

I admire you for turning back! And as I can see, it was well worth it! Just a beautiful, sweet shot. Well done! :)
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

jetbluestone says:

Great decision to turn back!..truly wonderful image..
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

Piper_H says:

Incredible! This is a beautiful photo. I love the colors and the background is gorgeous, but not too distracting. Stunning.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

heatherica! says:

Wow, this is beautiful!! I really admire you asking to take these pictures. It was definitely worth it!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

{Patrina} says:

love. just love.
i did this once a few years ago with a lady and her horse. it was so much fun. you just reminded me i need to do it more often. ♥
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

Daniel Nobre says:

you really have a gift. Amazing talent...This picture is so delicate. It tells a lot of stories...Love, interaction...power...and beauty. Really great picture.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

{leah} says:

oh man--this is really fantastic. wow!!!!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

Just Basic says:

What a sweet story to go with this really great picture.
I also (like many here) have a strange fear about taking
pictures of strangers, especially children.
What to I say, How do I ask, I should tell them it will
be published on the Internet but some parents are really
picky about that....
I'm so glad you went back to get this awesome picture.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

multitraxgurl1 says:

very cute and what a cute boy
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

jinxmcc says:

A wonderful moment of sharing. Thanks for your sensitivity, effort, and for sharing it with us!
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

lifeography® says:

remarkable jefra. truly.
Posted 32 months ago. ( permalink )

sesame ellis says:

stunning photo. i am very glad you turned back.
Posted 31 months ago. ( permalink )

...robert joseph... says:

excellent!
great color palette.
Posted 28 months ago. ( permalink )

jean photography [deleted] says:

I remember seeing this on ilp awhile back, I LOVE this shot! GREAT!
Posted 28 months ago. ( permalink )

KoriG says:

This photo is stunning! You can really see their bond here!
Posted 28 months ago. ( permalink )

firefly4563 says:

And what was the horses name? Great shot!
Posted 27 months ago. ( permalink )

jenn violet [deleted] says:

I always ask!, i dont care anymore, its worth it. the worst they say is no, then ya walk away :)
Posted 26 months ago. ( permalink )

original_ann says:

You were brave and it was worth it!
Posted 25 months ago. ( permalink )

Rachel Schell says:

this is amazing.

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Posted 15 months ago. ( permalink )

toddlertoes says:

awesome shot. Your work is so good. Hope you are feeling well!! Thinking about you and your little one coming.
Posted 14 months ago. ( permalink )

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