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Socialight : Presumptive Gender Settings

Socialight : Presumptive Gender Settings by factoryjoe.
This site must have been designed by Republicans.

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allaboutgeorge  Pro User  says:

Seconded.
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antigone78  Pro User  says:

hahhaha Nice.
Posted 15 months ago. ( permalink )

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innonate  Pro User  says:

awww. i agree we need more flexible gender categories (or none)... but the socialight people are good people -- just so everyone knows!
Posted 15 months ago. ( permalink )

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factoryjoe  Pro User  says:

So you're saying they're *not* Republicans? I'm sure they're good peeps -- why don't you put me in touch with them? ;)
Posted 15 months ago. ( permalink )

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factoryjoe  Pro User  says:

Somewhat better approach (Red Room):

Red Room's approach to gender
Posted 15 months ago. ( permalink )

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Sophistechate says:

Is it a required setting?

I don't think most transgender people I know would be insulted by this (which is the only category of people I can think of who would be affected, please let me know if I'm missing something). Once they've started presenting as their chosen sex, they prefer to simply be identified as male rather than M2F or trans-male or any of the other complicated terminology.

Or perhaps a couple of male and female sliders would be more appropriate? None of us are completely one sex or the other, you know. =]

EDIT: Just saw the updated comment with a screenshot of Red Room after I'd already hit submit.
Posted 15 months ago. ( permalink )

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riddle_  Pro User  says:

Sophistechate + 1

Political correctness can be blinding. But I’d argue wheter or not to use informal terms, like boy or girl.
Posted 15 months ago. ( permalink )

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scott hintz says:

Gender slider -- now that's a sign of modern times!
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factoryjoe  Pro User  says:

Other examples:

Pownce:
Pownce Gender Selector

Digg:
Digg _Gender

iminta:
iminta - gender

My biggest question is why they need to know gender? If you ask me, if you gave me a pronoun to improve the UI of the site, that's different:

"Should we refer to you as a "him", "her", or "its"?"
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m kasahara  Pro User  says:

ha
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disrupsean  Pro User  says:

Now Chris, why are you presuming that they're referring to gender?

They could be asking about the user's sex. ;)
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Sophistechate says:

Social networks are supposed to engage users with each other, and we all know that a considerable number of people are more interested in engaging with someone they can potentially mate with. Gender is definitely important. =]

When I first signed up for Pownce, I was amused by the large selection of gender choices (and personalities) I could associate myself with. It would get cheesy and overwhelming if every site took that approach, though.

Creating a gender slider sounds fun, though. Male on one end, female on the other, and creative names in between to give a description of how male or female you are.

I'm desperately searching wikipedia for a description of the gender research I'm talking about , help an 85% girl out if you have a url!
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me.at.work  Pro User  says:

I don't think "bird" is a very nice option! I am offended that the option is even there on behalf of broads, chicks, and dames everywhere!
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michaelsharon  Pro User  says:

Hi! I'm one of the developers of Socialight. Thanks for all the gender considerate comments. I do have to say that I don't think any of us is a Republican right now, but I haven't quizzed the office dog yet, and things could change at any moment...

Our gender (er.. sex) chooser contains 3 options: 1) Boy 2) Girl 3) Nothing. This is completely optional and if you don't choose a gender, we don't display anything - it's up to the user to actively select it after they sign up. I agree that this might not be immediately apparent from the UI.

I used "boy" and "girl" as fun alternatives to the boooring "male" and "female" options that were all the rage on other sites. Now, after reading this thread, we're going to implement a gender slider post-haste. After all, these days it's more of a continuum, rather than a binary, lifelong choice.
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riddle_  Pro User  says:

Haha, comment of the month :)
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clagnut  Pro User  says:

It's worth reiterating Chris's point of asking the question "Should we call you 'he' or 'she'?" if interface copy is the only reason for asking the question.
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squareintheteeth  Pro User  says:

I don't presume to know what odds & ends the "gender" info you're collecting gets used for on your site, but it might be worth considering if "sex" might not be a better term for the class of information the option represents. Gender is more representative of psychology; sex of biology.

These may be things Socialight has already addressed, but it's always a good idea to use terms in vague areas like these in a straightforward, uniform way.
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sjaylett  Pro User  says:

Gender vs sex is a very difficult distinction, by the way - as far as I know there is no generally accepted set of definitions and distinctions. Since social networks are to do with social interactions, you could label the choice "Please treat me as", "Please address me as", or similar. That should both make it clear how the information is going to be used, and avoid having to use 'gender' or 'sex', which is bound to upset someone (probably someone fairly mainstream, but there do seem to be quite a lot of them...).

Chris's point about "what should we call you" is I think less helpful, because while it satisfies the *interface* requirement (interaction between user and site), it isn't quite as clear whether it will give guidance to other users.

Whatever it's labelled, it should be at least one slider. (Two probably better than one as it copes with androgeny and intersexuality. How you cope with bigender is left as an exercise for the interface designer ;-)
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Christopher Fahey  Pro User  says:

Knowing the gender mix of a product's user base is important for marketing and advertising purposes, something we interface designers and social media critics often forget. Just sayin'.
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