awww. i agree we need more flexible gender
categories (or none)... but the socialight
people are good people -- just so everyone
knows!
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So you're saying they're *not* Republicans?
I'm sure they're good peeps -- why don't you
put me in touch with them? ;)
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I don't think most transgender people I know
would be insulted by this (which is the only
category of people I can think of who would
be affected, please let me know if I'm
missing something). Once they've started
presenting as their chosen sex, they prefer
to simply be identified as male rather than
M2F or trans-male or any of the other
complicated terminology.
Or perhaps a couple of male and female
sliders would be more appropriate? None of
us are completely one sex or the other, you
know. =]
EDIT: Just saw the updated comment with a
screenshot of Red Room after I'd already hit
submit.
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Social networks are supposed to engage users
with each other, and we all know that a
considerable number of people are more
interested in engaging with someone they can
potentially mate with. Gender is definitely
important. =]
When I first signed up for Pownce, I was
amused by the large selection of gender
choices (and personalities) I could associate
myself with. It would get cheesy and
overwhelming if every site took that
approach, though.
Creating a gender slider sounds fun, though.
Male on one end, female on the other, and
creative names in between to give a
description of how male or female you are.
I'm desperately searching wikipedia for a
description of the gender research I'm
talking about , help an 85% girl out if you
have a url!
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I don't think "bird" is a very nice
option! I am offended that the option is
even there on behalf of broads, chicks, and
dames everywhere!
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Hi! I'm one of the developers of Socialight.
Thanks for all the gender considerate
comments. I do have to say that I don't think
any of us is a Republican right now, but I
haven't quizzed the office dog yet, and things could change at any
moment...
Our gender (er.. sex) chooser contains 3
options: 1) Boy 2) Girl 3) Nothing. This is
completely optional and if you don't choose a
gender, we don't display anything - it's up
to the user to actively select it after they
sign up. I agree that this might not be
immediately apparent from the UI.
I used "boy" and "girl"
as fun alternatives to the boooring
"male" and "female"
options that were all the rage on other
sites. Now, after reading this thread, we're
going to implement a gender slider
post-haste. After all, these days it's more
of a continuum, rather than a binary,
lifelong choice.
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It's worth reiterating Chris's point of
asking the question "Should we call you
'he' or 'she'?" if interface copy is the
only reason for asking the question.
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I don't presume to know what odds & ends
the "gender" info you're collecting
gets used for on your site, but it might be
worth considering if "sex" might
not be a better term for the class of
information the option represents. Gender is
more representative of psychology; sex of
biology.
These may be things Socialight has already
addressed, but it's always a good idea to use
terms in vague areas like these in a
straightforward, uniform way.
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Gender vs sex is a very difficult
distinction, by the way - as far as I know
there is no generally accepted set of
definitions and distinctions. Since social
networks are to do with social interactions,
you could label the choice "Please treat
me as", "Please address me
as", or similar. That should both make
it clear how the information is going to be
used, and avoid having to use 'gender' or
'sex', which is bound to upset someone
(probably someone fairly mainstream, but
there do seem to be quite a lot of them...).
Chris's point about "what should we
call you" is I think less helpful,
because while it satisfies the *interface*
requirement (interaction between user and
site), it isn't quite as clear whether it
will give guidance to other users.
Whatever it's labelled, it should be at
least one slider. (Two probably better than
one as it copes with androgeny and
intersexuality. How you cope with bigender is
left as an exercise for the interface
designer ;-)
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Knowing the gender mix of a product's user
base is important for marketing and
advertising purposes, something we interface
designers and social media critics often
forget. Just sayin'.
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allaboutgeorge
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Seconded.
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