follow the heart ~
Look at every path closely and deliberately. Try it as many times as
you think necessary. Then ask yourself, and yourself alone, one
question . . . Does this path have a heart? If it does, the path is
good; if it doesn't it is of no use. Both paths lead nowhere; but one
has a heart, the other doesn't. One makes for a joyful journey; as
long as you follow it, you are one with it. The other will make you
curse your life. One makes you strong; the other weakens you.