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This is me........

........ Yep I'm GG! sorry to disappoint LOL
I go under the names of MrsB and "Chi"
my husband MrB is called "Mary-Jane" I hope that clears up any confusion.

I'm chief secretary to Mary-Jane for all her "fan-mail"

I will friend most but you may get un-friended if I'm not keen on the photos you post as i use "flickrfox" and it can get somewhat annoying if the pictures are just amateur porn at best!. I follow a few close friends, but may not get chance to comment as much as i would like - my apologies - but keep posting pics as i do see them as often as i can.
I can't possibly keep track of all 5000+ of you or even one percent of that number — especially with the birth of Suki-Rose and if you want me to continue to post pictures of Mary-Jane etc. I have to draw the circle very small so I can step out of it when I need to.

I do try to keep up with all the comments and flickr-mails, but most of the time I'm away from my computer, Please know that even if I don't reply, I do pay attention, and I thank you for taking the time it is very much appreciated and your patience if you don't get a reply straight away.

I suppose now after 12 months since seeing my husband without a beard - I don't even bat an eyelid. At the end of the day he is the same person and I wouldn't say "he's into being a cd" as he cann't help being who he is. and i wouldn't change him for the world.

It truly is possible to be with the ones you love and love them no mater.
I married my american husband 7/7/07 as a self confessed ex-crossdresser and he promised me he wasn't gay but that it was just a phase he was going through and that he was confused. He went under the alter ego of Stacy then and lived in a america. ( he didn't push it further and i didn't ask to see any photos - he had a beard for christ-sake - i just couldn't imagine it without cracking up *giggle*)
it really didn't matter I'd only known him 2 wks and had fallen madly in love with him - he actually proposed only 4 wks later *smile*

Anyway we have been happy but 6 months into our marriage I'd been feeling he wasn't fully letting go with me we were happy but there seemed something else which i couldn't put my finger on.

The end on jan 08 i took him away for a romantic weekend - and asked about the cross dressing - he said he didn't need it any more and it wasn't important any more. I asked if he still thought about it and did it use to make him happy and he said yes - so not knowing whether to hit him or hug him, I said I've never asked you not to do anything that makes you happy and whatever makes you happy -that smile is just fantastic (remember that all you girls smile and you become special it makes the biggest impact and shows through your eyes) boy does it make me happy!

How does it make me feel??
I have lost a lot (all my friends and family) so it makes me feel sad angry lonely a LOT. (I still cry most days)

But I have gained too - and Flickr and the friends i've made through it has helped me when times have been very tough.
I have formed new real and true friendships, I have a beautiful baby girl "Suki-Rose born Jan 2009

And most importantly I have an amazing husband who is strong enough to be true to himself and me. I love him more because he has changed my life - and yes life will never be the same again - but as long as he is holding my hand I / we will get through it together.

With the birth of Suki-Rose we have started yet another new chapter in our amazing life - and i'm excited and positive about 2009/10

lots of love Chi ( Elizabeth / Mrs B ), Mary-Jane ( Mr B), Suki-Rose and Brian
x x x

How to Share Clothes With a Cross-Dressing Husband

Men who cross dress can be awkward to live with, and when you have to share clothes with a cross-dressing husband--watch out. Just as you're ready to go out for the evening, you'll find your favorite blouse is in the wash. Sharing your wardrobe can be a simpler experience if you set a few ground rules first.

Instructions
Difficulty: Easy

Step 1:
Draw "The Line That Shall Never Be Crossed." Whether you're particular about your most expensive blouses or don't want the waistline of your favorite skirt stretched, lay down the law on what items are not community clothing.

Step 2:
Put the rules in writing. You can't bee too careful when it comes to protecting your hard-earned wardrobe. For example, "Rule #1: Stay out of my underwear drawer. Rule #2: If you stretch it, rip it, stain it or pull it out of shape; you owe me twice the retail value." (If you're going to share, you might as well get a shopping trip for your trouble.)

Step 3:
Capitalize on his lack of fashion sense. Pull out the items that you no longer wear and have your husband try them on. This technique is particularly effective if your transvestite husband is new to openly cross dressing in your presence. Assure him the ripped sweatshirt and 80's legwarmers look rather fetching on him. He'll be so excited to be wearing women's clothing with your blessing, he's unlikely to notice you're loaning him Flashdance rejects that you wouldn't be caught dead in.

Step 4:
Use separate "Hers" and "Hers" closets if possible. Your husband will appreciate his own space and you can hide your favorite clothes out of his sight.

Step 5:
Take him shopping for items that fit your taste. Since men who cross dress are often unwilling to try on women's clothing in public, you must try on and buy new clothes in his place. (Stick to this strategy--if you're suave enough, you can get a whole new wardrobe out of the deal.)

Tips & Warnings
• Don't make an open "what's mine is yours" offer. Remember, your husband is still a genetic man. Girlfriends understand that free rein wardrobe offers exclude lingerie, favorite blouses and any expensive item still bearing a price tag. Cross dressing husbands do not.
• The intent of this tongue-in-cheek article is to amuse both cross dressing husbands and their wives.

Chi and Mary-Jane

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Testimonials (55)

Julie Bracken says:

"Two brave and honest people. Thank you for being my friend.
xxx"

3rd February, 2011
hhcamie says:

"Very sad to read you've lost friends and family. A lot of respect and love coming your way. Helen and Emma, Leeds xxx"

23rd January, 2011
lauren 1969 says:

"Thank You so much for the add.

It would be an honour to be one of your friends.
Your story is amazing and I wish the 2 (+1 ) of you all the happiness for the future.

Lauren xx"

16th January, 2011
°•.♥.•° Iona Mclean °•.♥.•° says:

"A special family and friends who helped a very mixed up Iona. You guys are an inspiration, I'm sorry we've lost touch. Iona xxx"

10th January, 2011
Tanya Divine West says:

"thanks for letting me be part of your great photos :)"

12th March, 2010
Mohairsissie says:

"I am impressed, you are such a wonderful Daddy! Your wife or girlfriend is super for accepting a marvellous man like you. Congratulations to all."

25th May, 2009
julia kitty says:

"Thank you so much for adding me as a contact
kissing from santiago of chilli
julia kitty"

16th April, 2009
YOGURINHA BOROVA says:

"HI !!!!!!!!!!!

really AMAZING YOUR WORLD

a lot of kisses from BILBAO (Basque Country)

yogurinha borova"

14th April, 2009
sarah.rose34 says:

"Thank you so much for adding me as a contact. I have never seen so many testimonials before but it is little wonder in view of the amazing story and the beautiful family that is portrayed in these pages. Like all the others who have written, let me congratulate you on what you are doing and I hope an pray that your relationship will continue to grow and flourish."

11th April, 2009
Strangelfreak says:

"thank you sweety, lots of love all the way from barcelona.

=)
Xox
thanks for the fav!"

25th February, 2009
jaqi_ö_2 says:

"I always luv looking at the B's photostream. It reminds me there's xint TG/GG relationships and families out there even in this very imperfect world we live in.
~jaqi"

22nd February, 2009
Coralie la Godiche says:

"Thanks for adding me as a friend.
You are the most wonderfull couple i have ever seen (and by the way the greatest wife any tg would love to have ;-))
All my best wishes of happiness to your family and to the little Suki-Rose : welcome in this beautiful world !"

8th February, 2009
ellidomingues_cd@yahoo.com.br says:

"HELLOW MRS B (AKA CHI ) Y AM SORRY ! Y DONT SPEAKING ENGLISH Y am CD in the Brazil ...........PARABÉNS ( CONGRATULACIONS) .........( Portugueses : "EU TAMBÉM FIQUEI IMPRESSIONADO ATRAVÉS DAS FOTOS, POR VOCES FAZEREM UM LINDO PAR, COM MUITO ROMANTISMO, FANTASIAS AO MESMO TEMPO, COMPREENSÃO E IDÉIAS LIVRES, MODERNAS, DEMONSTRANDO PARA O MUNDO O AMOR, INDEPENDENTE DAS ROUPAS QUE SE USA POR AMBOS, COMO VIVER EM HARMONIA E LIBERAR AS FANTASIAS SEM PRECONCEITO, EU UMA CD BRAZILEIRA , TAMBÉM FIQUEI COM INVEJA POSITIVA, AO VER O AMOR QUE REINA ENTRE MRS B E MARY JANE E AGORA TAMBÉM AO "BABY" ( LITTLE BABY) OBRIGADA POR SER ADICIONADA COMO AMIGA ( FRIEND)!!! BEIJOSSS ( KISSES)"

4th February, 2009
Karen Bennett aka Queen Marie Conette says:

"You are such a lovely pair!!"

25th January, 2009
gwen tv 2 says:

"Hi Mrs B
You two must be the luckiest and happiest couple alive!
I am so jealous of the way you live and travel as a happy couple!
Would really love to meet you guys one day!
Have an awesome 2009!
Gwen xx"

31st December, 2008
playtoy1411776 says:

"Hi to you both,and thanks for the invite. Women who are having a baby are very sexy. I wish you both well, and your life fill of happiness
"Congratulations" charlie.........."

16th December, 2008
showoffwife2008 says:

"What a beautiful couple that add so much to life...and they are soon to be a family...how special....congrats....hugs and kisses to you both....wonderful friends"

14th December, 2008
Bobbie Anne says:

"You are truly and inspiration to the human race! I am so happy for you both! It's so nice to have a husband and a girlfriend. Congratulations, Bobbie Anne Mason"

28th November, 2008
marshasavemore says:

"I have been introduced to many lovely Transgendered Persons, but I will admit that Chi and Mary-Jane are the inspiration we all need....
The Love they Share and the complement to each other they show (as a couple)...truely breathtaking...
I could only dream that this would be the support and understanding that we all should recieve from our significant others...

Brava, to you both...Warmest Wishes... Marshasavemore@yahoo.com"

19th November, 2008
Toni_Richards says:

"From one happily married T-Girl, I'm honored to be friends with the both of you. You are an inspiration to many."

14th November, 2008
Wendy T Love says:

"You both are such a inspiration to all of us gurls and will give confidence to all of us at any age bracket....thx for the add girls"

13th November, 2008
ilovgloves says:

"Ohh, Thanks so much for your adding me. I consider it an Honor to have you listed as a friend. You are a real beauty and seem like a wonderful Person! Thanks again"

9th November, 2008
Simone LaTour says:

"First of all, thanks for adding me as a friend. Secondly, the love between you two will last forever. I know, because my wife has been married to me, a crossdresser, for 45 years (No Kidding). You've now seen my pictures. Best of luck. From Simone LaTour."

8th November, 2008
dragulatg says:

"you are o right about the benifits of having a TG person in your life, I came out to my wife years ago, she always wondered why I loved all of her body flaws, and found them attractive, and why i knew about clothes and makeup, Also she is the best femal (she is a GG) and male lover I have ever had, seen I am the TG person in this relationship. Glad we aren' t the only freaks,"

8th November, 2008
The Cranky Geek says:

"Simply the cutest TV I've ever seen! I am big admirer of your photos and your style, art and culture at it's best. Both of you are sexy people and are so lucky to have interests you can share with one another. What I've seen of you two is fantastic and hope you see more in the future. Have a pleasent day and Cheers! Your fellow Flickr'r"

5th November, 2008
Justine.G says:

"Thanks for making me one of your contacts.
Your profile and web sites are so inspirational, I wish I had a partner like.
Lots of Love
Justine"

30th October, 2008
andrea2jones says:

"Thank you both for inviting me. As already said your site has so much warmth and love but also made me laugh :-)"

29th October, 2008
Cathe Evans says:

"You guys are my heros and an inspiration. The 2 or you together are an example of what all of us would give anything to have - a caring, loving, sharing partner - each of whom accepts the other unconditionally. Those of us who have lived lives filled with turmoil because of personal feelings we can't share with a partner who pledged to love us "till death us do part" know how truly blessed each of you are.

I wish you love and happiness forever - you both deserve it.

With love,
Cath"

29th October, 2008
ladybuglexus724 says:

"WOW, just WOW!!! I am amazed by the amount of love that comes through your pictures. Your unconditional love for one another is so moving. Love, is love, is love and if a person wants to love a stick is no one's business besides their's and the stick. If you are not friends with MistressPussycat, you should be. I think she is cut from the same cloth you two are. Hugs to you and congrats on the new addition."

25th October, 2008
Sheemere says:

"Merci d'avoir accepté mon invitation et compliments pour tout ce que vous êtes et représentez aux yeux de l'humanité dans son ensemble.
Le délicieux exemple que le bonheur ne se trouve que dans la conjugaison de nos différences.
Salutations admiratives,
daniela de Montmartre."

23rd October, 2008
kyra_harris2001 says:

"Thanks for asking me to be a friend, you are lovely"

21st October, 2008
joaniebarette says:

"Mrs B and MJ are an insparation to any that are in any way connected because of a gender enhanced personality. They are a work in progress and a work of perfection. They are Love. I hope only that this love can be spread through out the world and our community. And that couples that struggle can see their choices as something that can change the gloom and dispare into hopes and joys! You guys (girls) are awesome!"

6th October, 2008
Andreakitten says:

"I received an e-mail from Brian and this is what he said.
Yes Andrea they are a little mad but at the same time a lot of fun. They run along on their long legs but always wait for me to catch up, I love running around their ankles on the lead, so they get tied up together and fall over... and from my height off the ground (if anyone says the word shortarse they will have my teeth sticking into their bottom!) I only need to look up to check their both wearing underwear!
I think they are quite creative as they are always up for ideas on places to go, things to wear and they make things a lot. They laugh a lot and when I’m naughty threaten to make me wear a wig, what they don’t know is I don’t give a stuff as long as the gravy biscuits keep dropping out of their handbags, I’d be happy to wear a postman Pat’s cat outfit!
I have heard there is a new addition to the pack on the way which will be fun, as I can teach the new puppy how to bring down antelope and which parts of a doll you should not chew... plus teach them how to navigate the world by smell alone!
All in all I would say my pack are the best and although it’s a bit soft to admit it I love them very much!!!
Best regards and hope the nose is better...Oh sorry didn’t realise it’s always like that... I thought it was swollen!
Luv Brian"

6th October, 2008
NC4eva2012 says:

"Thanks for adding Me Chi

dont be a stranger and return the love!!"

4th October, 2008
jasmincd says:

"You're both amazing. A perfect couple."

30th September, 2008
skyhy_tv says:

"what a nice story, and what beautifull girls! u dear to live life"

16th September, 2008
jamiestreet4 says:

"What a great perspective on life..groovy"

8th September, 2008
annie-pops says:

"You are both so beautiful! Gratz on the kidling to be..."

29th August, 2008
snartio says:

"Courage, high intelligence and humour are to be felt everywhere in Mrs B's contributions, and I have found a great deal of inspiration through her flickr site.
I would like to thank her for that."

22nd August, 2008
M. Pamplemousse says:

"You are to an extent an inspiration for thelilstar and I, you prove by your imagery that a couple is what you make of it and can become quite the unexpected. Best of luck to you two.
VS"

24th June, 2008
dixieflyer13 says:

"Hiya,thanks for add.You two are just so adorable,I just luv your pixs.Keep'em comming."

15th June, 2008
Mistress Pussycat says:

"So glad to find you again... Looking forward to continuing our friendship. Love to you and your special gurl...

Hugs,
xxx"

12th June, 2008
ilovepussycats4ever says:

"To a wonderful couple... I just love your photostream... Thanks so much for sharing with Patrice and I. We can so much relate to you both and its refreshing to find like minded friends. Thanks so much for your friendship.

Big Hugs,
Carrie~~
xxx"

7th May, 2008
DJ MsDD says:

"two fabulously sexy gals with a stunning, totally adorable sense of fashion and joy... I am so glad that you have requested me as your friend!"

4th May, 2008
Mistress Kayleigh's slave says:

"The finest couple on Flickr!!!!!!!
XXXXXXXXXXXXX"

28th April, 2008
Lexie Con, says:

"Its not often that you find a couple as energetic, creative and expressive as these two-AND SO IN LOVE! Its a rare quality that should be cherished (and the dachshund is cute too).
Best wishes to the both of you."

27th April, 2008
linda 1956 says:

"What a gorgeous couple you both make!Your smiles never fail to make a day more sunny and your photo's are all such fun.God bless you both for sharing your life and all the fun you have.You really are both the best!"

25th April, 2008
Frannie59 says:

"Both of you make such a Beautiful couple and your both so very cute.
You put so much time and effort into your pics and profile. You inspire me to make my life as fun as yours must be. Kisses, Frannie"

23rd April, 2008
LIVE,LOVE,LAUGH & DREAM says:

"Chi & Mary Jane are just so TOTALLY AWESOME! I am so glad that I have got to know them better! I only wish that I lived near them because these are the types of friends that I would be hanging out with offline! They are so in love with each other and that to me is some awesome. They know how to have fun together and you can just tell they are so into each other. Mary-Jane & Chi put a smile on my face everyday with all the wonderful photos that they take. BIG HUGS & LOTS of LOVE 2 you BOTH! You are sunshine in my world and I thank you so much for being my friends!

Love Ya,
Laur
Creative Wild Designs"

23rd April, 2008
Sophie_H says:

"Chi is a really genuine, intelligent, kind and witty person who I now have the priveledge to call a friend. (And hopefully Mary-Jane, Brian and Drum & Bass as well.)
Not only a great photographer but now she has progressed to movie maker.
Sophie H"

14th April, 2008
jennifer_exhibitionist says:

"It is rare for someone to find their perfect soulmate but Chi and Mary-Jane have experienced kismet when their paths crossed and formed a loving and sharing bond. The luminous smiles convey the sense of joy (sensual and spiritual) they share in each other. What a lovely folio of pics to immortalise their love and great fashion style! They are both gorgeous and sexy. XOXO"

13th April, 2008
Grand Danois says:

"If you're like me, a fan of beauty and great photography, then this is THE profile to spend some time at; but that's not all (Hmm. Now I'm sounding like some TV shop dude *giggles*). Seriously, I happened to stumble upon the profile of Chi & Mary-Jane by chance. Drawn to their marvellous world of photography. They've been such a sweet and lovely pair of humans to me from day one. They are full of love and fun. Thanks, guys. This world needs more people like the two of you."

30th March, 2008
glix says:

"awesome!1@"

20th March, 2008
adarabeth says:

"Mrs/Mr/Miss B (and the pup too!),
One cannot help but to admire the free and honest portrayal of ultimate love and ultimate sense of being that these two (well 3 i guess) have ...
Their photo's tied to the captions are infused with energy that instills both hope and inspriration as well as charm and sincere joi de vivre. They understand and easily convey in what they offer here (and very much in life) that freedom of expression and the real essence of freedom is 100% achievable. Check them out and you will fall in love with them, I know I did ~"

16th March, 2008
mulheresdocoveiro says:

"I only knew Chi for some few hours and i complete fall in love for her own way. MY husb agree too, because the people usually act in some masks and in their bedroons act in some devil way. Who care what you do, if you continue live your life? Im really love Chi because i go into the past of her pics, and she show all the good moments of her and secret moments of her and him and Mary-Jane So, after spend like 4 hours look the pictures, i assumed that i want to know more about you, soon as i can.
Be happy my "M´s", be happy.
with love.
Jana"

12th March, 2008