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Hello, I'm Frances; a life-style English Pre-op Transsexual i.e. I chose to become a TS, I wasn't born into the wrong body, I simply got bored with the one I had.

I'm currently studying toward becoming a certified 'sex therapist/counsellor', as well as being a gigging musician here in London. CLICK HERE to listen to my latest CD.

I leading a charmed, blessed and serendipitous life. But as with anything worth having, one has to invest both time and energy for to bring that about, it doesn't just happen whilst sitting there watching the telly or idling away in the chats.

I'm don't do 'the scene' much, I pop in now and again to catch up on the news, but you'll have a better chance of bumping into me out in the mainstream world.

Yup, I've sure had it tougher than some, however, easier than others, I have more than some, less than others; stuff is stuff, but heck, I like it all the same i.e. 8 guitars and a car that only does 16 miles to the gallon...ouch!

And so, if this is as good as it gets, well, that's just fine by me, because it's the life I have both chosen and made for myself. Daily I make my king-sized bed, (Egyptian cotton sheets, goose down duvet and pillows...ahhh) and I'm quite happy returning to it at days end, sleeping like a starfish on a beach; I do so love my bed.

I'm the ultimate and ever eternal optimist, perhaps stubbornly so, refusing to become cynical, despite the occasional and periodic fall from grace...ouch...i.e. naively getting screwed over.

Alack, such is the vulnerability of trust, it's wide open to abuse by those who were unworthy of it in the first place. But ultimately, that's their loss and what hope the world if I too were to give up on it, thus swelling the ranks of those cynics.

I'm not a vengeful person; nope, I leave such things in the large and very capable hands of divine providence. Anyways, worse case scenario, I'd like to think it helps keep me humble...ish and my feet on the ground; though my head's still in the clouds, me being both a dreamer and a realist. I suppose you'd call me a conscientious hedonist?


At present, I’m just sitting on the dock of a bay (life), enjoying watchin the tide roll away, but not wasting time.

I'm no wallflower, nor am I looking for tea, sympathy or affirmation.

Baggage...zero!

I’m not running away from anything.

I'm not in denial.

I wasn't dealt a bad card.

I didn't pull a short straw.

I wasn't born into the wrong body; I simply got bored with
the previous one and so decided to tweak it a bit.

I'm not trying to get to anywhere other than where I am right here and now.

If I could be anyone in the whole wide world I'd still be me, warts all, not that I have any warts mind you!

Yes, I guess you could say I've worked it out; I’m a rather content Bunny.

I trust this profile has both warmed and amused you? Do feel free to drop me a line and say hi, I don't bite, I just nibble by request.

Well, that's it really, in a rather small nutshell. Anon.

Be kind to yourself

Frances.