I'm a gay man living with my Domestic Partner of 28+ years...Jerry. We are part of a Triad with our Partner Darek, who is currently attending Graphic Design school in Minnesota.

I grew up in Michigan, joined the Navy, fell in love with Washington State. Met Jerry in 1982, fell in love. He got tired of cold feet so I retired and we moved to the desert of California in 2006. We met Darek in December 2009, both fell in love with him (and thank our Higher Powers...he fell in love with us). We are working to get him home to California with us as soon as possible.

Life is good!

I'm currently 59 years old!

See Jerry's photostream here: [www.flickr.com/photos/12629613@N03/]

See Darek's photostream here: www.flickr.com/photos/dm2/

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    piemandc says:

    "Thank you for being a friend! And I don't mean that in a Golden Girls kind of way."

    14th June, 2011

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    Three Boy C says:

    "May makes me smile!!! Sharing a bit of himself in every photo he posts. His imagination, artistic talent, & good solid sense of humour make my life brighter. Cheers James!!! Love Ya Honey!!!"

    26th September, 2009

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    simplysilly says:

    "James is such a wonderful and warm person you can't help but love him and Jerry to pieces. I keep warning him that the next time I get to Cali I'm knockin' on his door! (I'll make sure I warn him so he and Jerry can make some cookies and get the camera set up) Loves ya James!"

    24th March, 2009

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    Photos By Jes says:

    "James - one of my FAVORITE FLICKR FRIENDS!!! Although I have never met James in person, I feel like I know him through his photography. His images are open and honest, and his sense of humor and personality really shine through. His photostream always brightens my day."

    10th March, 2009

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    Twitchietai says:

    "James is not only an awesome photographer, he is also a sage, a wit, and a storyteller. Visiting his photostream is always a delight. Some of his images have made me spit my coffee across my keyboard because of their hilarity, some have touched my heart with his sincere compassion, some of them have made me smile when I needed it most. And all of them inspire me by his love for life and for his partner, and remind me that life is supposed to be fun. Thank you James!"

    8th June, 2008

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    From Cams Eye says:

    "HES is a superb photographer with a magnificent gallery of images. He captures it all well, . All of them receive the "magic touch" through the lens of His camera and transform into works of art. Hes not only a great photographer, but also one of the kindest, most generous people I have met on Flickr. Thank you, for the joy of your photos!"

    20th April, 2008

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    Nori the Good Witch of Design says:

    "James has such a wonderful, positive energy that brightens my day whenever he visits. His clone shots and comments make me laugh.

    I recently reread his profile, and there was an update: "Life is good"...and it shows in his humor and warm personality."

    2nd October, 2007

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    redjade75 says:

    "What can I add to the other wonderful tributes here? I look forward to James' wild and wonderful views on the world we live in. His photos always leave me with a smile. The fact that he leaves lovely comments on other people's photos makes him even more of a love."

    7th July, 2007

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    oneclevercat says:

    "Happy people usually make me nervous, but he's so silly and fun and such a dear heart, that I think I can overlook that "happy" thing. hee!"

    31st May, 2007

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    *Simon* says:

    "honest and creative james all way's has something fresh in his stream to give you a smile, with a superb sense of humour to match he all ways finds some way to keep you chuckling for the rest of the day"

    1st May, 2007

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    basykes says:

    "I look forward to seeing these pictures each day. One of the most imaginative, off the wall photographers on Flickr."

    26th April, 2007

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    ck1004 says:

    "James' pictures are fun and creative, a true reflection of the photographer, and they have replaced my morning coffee at work. =D
    It provides me with the jolt of energy and happiness that I need! My boss is probably wondering why I smile so much now =D
    James also welcomed me to the flickr community with open arms and for that I'm I'm truly grateful.
    I look forward to exchanging more smiles with you! xoxo!"

    20th April, 2007

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    lrayholly says:

    "Fresh, honest, fun! What's not to like? I like to look at May's photos in the morning, he usually starts my day off with a smile. Thanks, I need that!"

    24th February, 2007

Name:
James May
Joined:
September 2006
Hometown:
Big Rapids, Michigan
Currently:
Palm Springs, California
I am:
Male and Taken
Occupation:
Retired