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Ok, 51 thousand views, I guess I owe everyone a big thanks plus… a little more about me…

I am a bit over 45 years old, married (23 years – albeit a bit rocky - and counting), and have two wonderful kids. I am a closeted dresser, as my wife is extremely religious and absolutely would not understand my fetishes or desires. Frankly, I have always had these feelings and desires. They are a part of me that I have kept to myself, and probably always will.

I have been attracted to women’s high heels, boots, shoes, etc. for as long as I can remember. I adore the casual look – jeans or a denim skirt, pantyhose, knee socks, a sweater, cowl neck, a blouse or vest, and always chunky heels, clogs, or boots. Oh, and mary janes. How I love mary janes!! I don’t know what it is, and don’t really care, I love the style! Although I consider myself far from passable (large chest and large thighs, calves, and arms) dressing up in these clothes is my way of fulfilling an inner desire to attain the feminine form. In short, I find it a real turn-on.

I am a closeted dresser, usually doing so mainly on business trips. It is only recently that I have started building up a small wardrobe of women’s clothes, although I have always had a stash of women’s shoes and boots. As a compromise, I will often wear chunky heeled shoes or boots under a long pair of women’s boot-cut jeans to work. Since I work as a professional engineer, most of my days are spent sitting at a desk or in meetings where my footwear remains inconspicuous. My jeans are always long enough to hide the heel (but not the feel), whether I be sitting or standing. To be honest, men tend to be rather oblivious to what you wear on your feet (and I know who is not) so I only need to be diligent around women, and a few other co-workers.

That being said, I also consider myself bi-curious, but only towards other TG’s or CD’s. No men. I have never been with another person in all the years I have been married, although I often fantasize about it. If that were to change, it would have to be with someone who was very feminine. Being the type of a person who always loves to figure out what drives someone crazy, I can’t imagine just how exciting that would be – for both of us. Other things I adore are a good sense of humor and a quick wit, the smell of perfume, exploring and discovering how to drive someone crazy, and a great big genuine smile! I’m easygoing and more probably more patient than I should be, but life is good so why waste time getting upset over little things.

My turn-offs would be smoking, body odor or bad hygiene, vanity or arrogance, and other men (from a sexual aspect that is).

My sincerest thanks to all of you who have left me notes, comments, or sent me a Flickr Mail. Flickr has been the first outlet I have had to express the inner ‘me’, and you have all been so kind and encouraging.

Be well, be yourself, keep enjoying my pictures, and enjoy life!

And yes, SE Wisconsin is still where my heels call home!